This is Not About Us

By: Allegra Goodman

Published by Random House, 2026-02-10

<b>A kaleidoscopic portrait of a modern American family—steadfast, complicated, begrudging, and loving—from the bestselling author of <i>Isola</i><br><br><i>Was this just a brief skirmish, or the beginning of a thirty-year feud? In the Rubinstein family, it could go either way.</i><br><br></b>When their beloved sister passes away, Sylvia and Helen Rubinstein are unmoored. A misunderstanding about apple cake turns into a decade of stubborn silence. Busy with their own lives—divorces, dating, career setbacks, college applications, bat mitzvahs and ballet recitals—their children do not want to get involved. As for their grandchildren? Impossible.<br><br>With <i>This Is Not About Us,</i> master storyteller Allegra Goodman—whose prior collection was heralded as “one of the most astute and engaging books about American family life” (<i>The Boston Globe</i>)—returns to the form and subject that endeared her to legions of readers. Sharply observed and laced with humor, <i>This Is Not About Us</i> is a story of growing up and growing old, the weight of parental expectations, and the complex connection between sisters—a big-hearted book about the love that binds a family across generations.<b><br><br></b>